Grant people grace !!!

We are all trying very hard to be kind, considerate and compassionate. How much we succeed depends on which side of the table we are on. What we feel is our best foot forward may appear to be uncaring to others. So before forming opinions look within and grant people grace. As it is life is pretty difficult for us . No one really purposely wants to trouble or hurt anybody. ~Latika Teotia

Wish every living being well !!!

Today when you pray enlarge the circle of people you pray for and include even those who are unkind to you. With every breath- breathe in all the negativity, turn it into love as well as compassion and breathe out peaceful vibrations. When you are filled with love and compassion you always live a blissful life. ~Latika Teotia

Sending love !!!

I appreciate all those who are fighting to stay positive, kind and gentle in the midst of negative people. A single lamp is enough to lighten a room full of darkness; so also one single kind hearted positive person is enough to ward off all the negative, critical and difficult people. ~Latika Teotia

Wise up !!!

Anything that drains your emotions or fills you with negativity is not good for your soul; avoid such people, thoughts, situations and so on. Surround yourself with positive people whose company gives you happiness and peace of mind.~Latika Teotia

Learn to ignore to find peace !!!

Life has many ups and downs; some of the things may happen according to your wishes, but there are other things which just take away your peace. If you start fretting and fuming over the ones that go wrong and hang on to those memories, then, believe me life is going to be one long whine. Learn to ignore and you will find peace.

As people grow older a certain amount of rigidity sets in not only in various parts of their bodies but in their mind sets as well. Very small deviations are enough to trigger strong reactions. Very often people start interfering in the lives of others; they should slow down and stopped interfering – especially in the lives of their children.  They must invest their energies in something productive which will also give them peace. They must learn to ignore if they want to find true happiness. ~Latika Teotia

Invest your time and energy wisely on things which matter !!!

People will try your patience, bug you, irritate you, do something petty and won’t think twice about it. It’s up to you to react by confronting them, seek an apology or just ignore them. I would sincerely advise you to ignore and move on. There are far better and more important things to do then waste time over eliciting a confession or an apology. Moreover, the people who do something wrong are neither mature enough to realize their follies nor will they accept that they were wrong. You will be banging your head against a stone wall and spoiling your own day. Invest your time and energy on things which matter. Hold on to your peace- always. ~Latika Teotia

My prayers !!!

There are people whose suffering makes them take their mind off other things in life; so focused are they on their misery that they fail to notice their simple blessings. My prayer for such people is May they not ignore the happiness that still exists. May they see the rainbow at the end of the road. May they find strength to carry on and never give up. May they never lose hope.
~Latika Teotia

Make sure that people don’t take you for granted !!!

Don’t let others take you for granted and trample you under their feet. They may take your forgiving nature as a sign of weakness. Don’t live under the false hope that if you forgive them, they may perhaps understand you. Therefore, don’t hesitate to tick off people and tell them that you won’t give a second chance. That you won’t hesitate to block them from your life. You are important!!! Give importance to yourself and others will follow suit.
~Latika Teotia

Take stock of your relationships !!!

Once in a while we should take stock of our relationship. Are the people around you a part of your life because you chose them or have they been thrust on you? More importantly, are they helping you in your growth or are they a drag on your life ??? ~Latika Teotia

Sharing your feelings isn’t weak !!!

I know you want to keep things private and you have a desire to appear strong. I am sure you must be having your own strong reasons. But Precious, sharing your feelings and showing your vulnerability isn’t weak. We aren’t meant to go through life on our own. People do need other people. You will be surprised that there are so many of us who feel that way too. So you are not alone…not now…not ever…Please take down those walls, even if it’s just a little bit. Give your friend or loved ones a chance to hear you out, understand you, and provide you with a support that is so so so very needed. When we talk about our feelings, they become less overwhelming, less upsetting and less scary. So please don’t be hard on yourself. Speak up!!! I promise you that, there are people who are willing to listen and help… when you’re ready. ~Latika Teotia