Control Disguised As Concern Pushes Love Away !!!

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If you scrutinize and correct every move your family makes, you’re not guiding – you’re suffocating. Control disguised as concern pushes love away.

No one thrives under a microscope. Not your spouse. Not your children. Not your parents. Eventually, silence will replace conversation. Distance will replace warmth. And one day, you’ll look around and wonder why you’re standing alone.

Strong families aren’t built by one person dictating- but by everyone contributing. Collective energy. Shared decisions. Mutual respect. That’s what makes a home feel like home.

Try loosening the grip. Start trusting a little more.
Because when every voice is heard, love becomes the loudest one.
And when love leads, no one walks alone…~Latika Teotia

Where Dandelions Dance !!!

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Once lived Mira, a sculptor who believed the world could be chiseled into perfection and so could the choreography of daily life. She aligned her brushes by size, wore spotless white, and believed life would be beautiful and peace would arrive when everything was flawless.

But nothing ever truly was. Her neighbor laughed too loud. Her brother forgot birthdays. Even her heart skipped beats without asking.

One day, her masterpiece, a statue titled Flawless Humanity, cracked during a storm. Mira sat beside the pieces, tools in hand, but didn’t move. For the first time, she simply watched the break, the silence, the wild, messy garden she’d always tried to tame. And something shifted.

She didn’t fix the statue. She filled the crack with gold, wore color again, laughed without flinching, listened without judgment. She stopped trying to fix people and started understanding them.

In that quiet acceptance, peace finally arrived,not polished, but soft, warm, and alive.

She never sculpted again, but she grew a garden. A wild, uneven one where everything had a place.
Flaws included.
Laughter included.

Dandelions especially. Perfection retired the day Mira met a dandelion and it blew her mind.Turns out, wild things don’t queue up, they dance…~LatikaTeotia

Are you living with an emotional abuser???

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Don’t ever allow the fear of losing a relationship cause you to submit to being controlled or manipulated. Any relationship worth having must be one of “Mutual Love, Respect & Understanding”. Don’t give in! You are “well-able”. Don’t let anyone play upon your supposed “weaknesses” God has given you wisdom to run your own life. So, you don’t really need anyone constantly telling you what to do and what not to do. Know Your Worth !!! ~Latika Teotia