Trust God !!!

We undergo all kinds of pain and misery. There are times when nothing works well and the future appears to be bleak. There appears to be no end in sight and no relief from the continuous misery. We must always trust God and pray but it is times such as these that we must turn to Him with even bigger zeal. He is our Saviour and He alone can show us a way out. Adversity teaches us to be brave and we come out that much stronger from the experience. Perhaps, God wants to make us strong and independent, therefore, He is trying to remove our crutches- our over dependence on someone or something. This reminds me of a story about a poor family and their cow.

Once upon a time in a far away land, there lived a wise teacher and his disciple. During one of their travels, they came upon an extremely poor family staying in a miserable hut in a desolate place where there were hardly any crops or greenery. A man lived with his wife, three young children and a thin, tired looking cow. Since they were hungry and thirsty, the wise man and his disciple stopped for a few hours and were well received. The family shared whatever little they could with them. Later, the wise man thanked the owner and asked him, “This is a very poor and desolate place, far away from anything. I can see hardly any crops or vegetables growing. How do you survive?”

The man replied, “You see that cow? That’s what keeps us going. She gives us milk, some of it we turn into cheese. We go into the city and exchange the milk and cheese for our needs – including food. When it rains we try to grow some vegetables wherever we can because it is rocky and there hardly any good land. That’s how we survive.”

The wise man thanked them for their hospitality and left. When he reached the first bend in the road, he said to his disciple, “Go back, get the cow, take her to that cliff in front of us, and push her off it.”
The disciple could not believe his ears. “I cannot do that, master! How can we be so ungrateful, cruel and heartless? The cow is all they have. If I throw it off the cliff, they won’t be able to survive. Without the cow, they’ll all die!”
The wise man took a deep breath and repeated the order- a little firmly this time. Though outraged, the student obeyed his teacher. He returned to the hut, untied the cow and quietly led it to the edge of the cliff from where he pushed it. The animal fell down and died.
As the years passed by, remorse for what he had done never left the disciple. One day, the guilt became too much to bear so he left the wise man to see the family of that little hut. He wanted to find out what had happened to them; to help them out, apologize or somehow make amends. Upon rounding a turn in the road, he saw that in place of the poor miserable hut stood a beautiful house with trees all around, a well manicured lawn, a swimming pool and several cars in the garage- in short a prosperous looking place. The family was celebrating their first million dollars.
The heart of the disciple froze and wondered what could have happened to that poor family. Without a doubt, they must have been forced to sell their land and leave. Perhaps at this very moment they must all be begging on the streets of some city. He approached the house and asked them the whereabouts of the family that had lived in poverty there several years ago.

“You’re looking at that family,” said the man. At that instant the disciple recognized the owner of the poor hut, only now he was much healthier, happier and confident. The woman too looked happy and the children were now healthy good looking teenagers.
He was dumbfounded, and asked, “What happened? I was here with my teacher a few years ago and this was a miserable place. There was nothing. What did you do to improve your lives in such a short period?”
The man looked at the disciple and replied with a smile, “Yes I remember you and the wise man. After you left, our cow strayed and fell off the cliff. When I went down, I found it dead. Initially I cursed my bad luck. But we had no time to cry. In order to survive, we had to start doing other things. We discovered skills we didn’t even know we possessed. Because we were forced to come up with new ideas, new ways of doing things, we prospered and are now much better off than before.”
At times our biggest obstacle is over dependence on something fragile. The crutches that should be helping us to move ahead become chains that hinder our growth. So, perhaps, God wants to “push your cow off the cliff” and make you aware of your strengths. Trust Him and turn to Him for guidance.
~Latika Teotia

Take a chance on change !!!

In order to remain relevant we have to keep up with the times; this may mean changing ourselves, adapting to the situation, carrying out mid course corrections and so on. At times these may forced on us and at other times these may come about by accident. Therefore, in a way, we are constantly evolving; our effort should be to evolve into a better person- better than the previous one before we decided to change. We must get rid of the extra baggage that we have been lugging around; in fact we must constantly take stock and free ourselves off what doesn’t help us evolve. Take a leap; don’t be afraid. Remember, we have nothing to lose but our own inhibitions, fears and limitations. ~Latika Teotia

Learn to be patient when something goes wrong !!!

Everything happens for a reason  because it’s in the overall scheme of things that God has planned. Whether it’s happiness or sadness, success or failure, good times or difficult ones He knows about it all. So take everything as the will of God. I know it’s easy to be grateful when things are going your way and all is well. But we must learn to be patient when something goes wrong. Do not despair. Pray and allow God to move you from despair to hope; fear to calmness; helplessness to confidence and weakness to strength. God has the power to set everything right- place all your trust in Him.
~Latika Teotia

Always have faith in God !!!

Always have faith in God, never doubt and never question Him. Strange are His ways and you should be prepared to accept whatever He does in the right spirit. He has planned everything and you are no exception. He will do what is right for you. Be patient. Always trust His wisdom and have faith in Him. Rest assured He will see you on the other side safe and sound. ~Latika Teotia

Thank you God !!!

Thank you God for always guiding me and holding my hand. I feel secure in the knowledge that you are always there and will not let me fall. I have the confidence that you will come to my rescue when the going gets rough or tough. I feel blessed to receive your unfailing love. Please always stay with me and lift me above petty jealousies as well as small living. I want to make you proud. Keep your light shining on me. Amen. ~Latika Teotia

Choose the role of the hero instead of playing the victim card !!!

Nobody is born a victim, it’s we who, over a period of time, succumb to situations and choose instead to play the victim because we find it easier. It suits us to carry the victim tag because we don’t want to come out of our comfort zone by taking on responsibilities. This, however, does not include those for whom life has been unfair by heaping impossible situations- my heart goes out to them and hope that God showers His mercies on them; may their troubles become small. My request is to those who are in a position to make a difference; they should choose the role of the hero instead of playing the victim card. Don’t be afraid of difficulties, hardships and unfair situations. Tackle them head on. God has blessed you with power use it and leave a mark.
~Latika Teotia

Take a step forward !!!

We can’t just sit and wish about this and that, we have to make efforts. Just dreaming about something and not doing anything about it is called day dreaming. Therefore, you need to work in that direction and take a step forward. Yes, the first step is the most difficult one but remember, every journey, long or small, begins with the first step. With a dream in your eyes, hope in your heart, trust in your ability and unshakeable faith in God, no journey is too difficult nor is any dream too big. With God as your guide, you are much stronger than your troubles, so go ahead take the first step and the rest will be a cake walk. ~Latika Teotia

Thank you God !!!

I feel blessed when I come to know that my words have touched someone’s heart or that my journey has given someone hope or that I have been able to inspire others. Thank you God for all the opportunities of learning and making my life worthy. ~Latika Teotia

Have unshakeable faith and absolute trust in God !!!

Having unshakeable faith and absolute trust in God will make you notice His miracles everywhere. Hold Him the closest in your heart. Live joyfully under His guidance and you will find your troubles, problems and unease just disappearing. He has the ability to turn troubles inside out and keep you out of harm’s way. Yes that’s the best way forward- total, complete and unconditional faith as well as trust in God. ~Latika Teotia